Sorry for the delay in responding all. It's been a busy couple of days in the real world. So I really appreciate all of the suggestions, and I think I'm slowly getting to grips with the basic sketch manipulation. I now appreciate the split function and how it's more-or-less the same for operations like this.
So, I realise @SSIMMONS I didn't do a great job of explaining what I meant by my need to edit the same volume on two sketch planes. Even if that's possible (or not), I'm willing to bet at this stage you guys have a better way of doing what I'm trying to get to. (Again, really appreciate your guessing at what I was trying to explain with those vids).
I'll try and explain things a bit clearer this time - with images!
Now I have the joining part added as I was trying to do originally. The face I've highlighted is a trapezoid and meshes with the two angled pieces either side perfectly.
However, the "other plane" I mentioned was the side profile of the part, where I want it to match the curve of the side parts, like this:
I've played around with some multiple point chamfer and blend edges, but I can't get a good result.
If I could edit this side as a cross section, then I'm sure I would b e able to add points and match it up perfectly. So this is my current issue.