LOL! This is a typical scenerio we hear from users switching from SWX or Inventor. The problem is to learn IronCAD you must ignore what you have been pre-programmed to do in SWX etc.. Unfortunately, IronCAD is the best and easiest way to design HOWEVER it's difficult for existing users, we have to detune often our customers of all the cumbersome and counter-productive approach that has been forced on you in other programs. But have faith becuase once the "lightbulb" goes on (like with many of my customers) they NEVER want to go back to the old way of doing things again .
Trust me, if you stick it out and persist, the world will be your oyster!
Tom